Memorial candle lighting

I am planning on doing a memorial candle at the beginning of our ceremony. My fiance lost his son a year and a half ago, his father, and I lost my mother about 5 years ago. We have no plans for a wedding program. The suggestions say for the reverend to say a short prayer. The reverend marrying us.... [Read more]

Twinkle lights under tables

I am getting married on October 15th and want to use white christmas lights around my reception. I am going to use willow or birch branches and wrap lights around them and stand them against a wall in my hall that is all mirrors. I also saw somewhere and wanted to do it, put lights under the.... [Read more]

Vermont Wedding Planner

Do you have any recommendations for a wedding planner in Vermont (specifically, Southern Vermont)? Neither my finance nor I live in Vermont and the wedding will be on his parents' property in outdoor tents in October. We need a fair amount of assistance in coordinating the entire event. In.... [Read more]

Attention hogging sister

My entire life my sister has been in the spotlight. No one in my family puts her in her place, she has been dubbed the "princess." She is 4 years older than me and i have been dating my fiance for 4 years now. She changes boyfriends constantly, but has been dating the same guy now for 8months. My.... [Read more]

Unequal attention for both parents - financial - Help

My future MIL is not a cooperative person and relies on her children heavily for finacial help. We are going to pay for her expenses to our destination wedding in October (as her other son is doing for his Hawaii wedding in June). If we didn't pay for this she wouldn't come to the wedding. We.... [Read more]